Trading Comfort For Freedom

Let's face it. Comfort is the familiar crutch that keeps us living beneath our birthright. In retrospect, we've traded a lot for safety, comfort and continuity. It makes sense. There are so many reasons, evidenced in our lineages, that we would desire safety and belonging. All of us. So without really interrogating the options, we choose familiar. We want safety. We like the familiarity.

It's so comfy, we forget that we even have a choice.

In our youth, we went from being curious explorers to conforming classmates. Many of us began valuing safety of being hidden, even though we were able to successfully stand out from the crowd.

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Then we developed masks... the ones that helped us shapeshift based on what was needed, rather than who we were.

That is how we got here. This place... the one that feels familiar and comfy, but is far below the magnitude of your true divinity. It is the couch in the middle of the highway- out of place and clearly blocking the path. It's time to choose differently.

Real freedom offers everything that you need. There is no place more comfortable than your truth. Being who you truly are eventually becomes the most beautiful expression of comfort, freedom, faith and safety.

Yes, being your true self is safe. Think of the work it takes to keep up illusions. Eventually the mask slips and there you are... Trust me, I know.

In my work as a trusted advisor and spiritual strategist, I prepare leaders for their higher purpose and guide them to reconnect with their inner truth. One of the most profound challenges we encounter on this journey is the seductive allure of comfort, and the cost it can impose on our freedom. In my upcoming book, Healing Is Required, and throughout my podcast, I invite you to examine where comfort has become your cage and how breaking free is the path to a remarkable, purpose-driven life.

Purpose is at the center of creating a remarkable life. Regardless of how you choose to live into your purpose, it is your recipe for being who you truly are. My gifting includes the ability to "see" purpose in people. It gives you the freedom to choose and actively design the life you want, not what looked like it made sense at the time.

There is nothing wrong with living a life you love. If you have that today, I am so happy for you. If comfort is working for you, more power to you. If it is legacy and impact you desire and you are not sure where to start, you need an "x-factor." That is who God created me to be.

Check out the tips in this week's newsletter to support you in reclaiming your freedom. It can be very easeful if you are able to let go...

If you are ready to explore your unique path to freedom, you can book a discovery call with me here. I'd love to show you what's possible!

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Cheers to creating your path to freedom and living your Remarkable Life!

Peace and Blessings!

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"Comfort Is The Cage"

Recognizing the Comfort Cage

Every transformation begins with awareness. Many of us imagine comfort as an armchair after a long day—a place to recharge and feel safe. But, as I have explored on my podcast, what happens when that armchair is not just a seat, but a cage? When the search for comfort becomes a quest that dulls your ambition, keeps you small, or insulates you from the risks that growth requires, comfort turns from sanctuary to stagnation.

Ask yourself: Where in my life am I continually choosing comfort, not recognizing its hidden cost? Is it in your career, your relationships, your finances, or your habits? Sometimes comfort is so familiar, so routine, we hardly notice it’s holding us back. As I often say: “Too much comfort starts to lead to stagnation and moments where we are trading growth, opportunity, the future.”

Understanding the Hidden Costs

Trading freedom for comfort comes at a price you might not see until you’ve spent years on the other side of opportunity. As I shared in the episode, “On the other side of freedom is our purpose. It is our divine authority. On the other side of freedom, it's the life that is extraordinary. It's the life that you deserve to have.”

Staying in the comfort cage can mean:

• Missing your sense of deeper fulfillment and meaning
• Delaying dreams, visions, and callings that keep resurfacing within you
• Never experiencing the abundant life that living in alignment with your purpose offers

When you allow comfort to dictate your choices, you might never take the leap that leads you into your extraordinary life. But if you’re willing to endure temporary discomfort; the fear, the risk, the unknown, you open the door to a new kind of comfort: the peace that comes with freedom and the joy of living authentically.

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A Strategy for Stepping Into Freedom

1. Cultivate Self-Awareness​
   Begin by identifying the comfort zones in your life. Use a journal or the notes on your phone to capture moments where you find yourself drawn back to the “armchair.” Ask: Am I acting out of habit, safety, or genuine fulfillment? What dreams or visions do I keep putting on hold?
2. Examine Your Relationship with Fear​
   Discomfort is often a signal of growth, not danger. Where does fear stop you? Which stories or beliefs make you hesitant to step out? Recognize that these may be inherited from others; a teacher’s words, ancestral conditioning, societal expectations. Not all these stories are yours.
3. Rewrite Limiting Narratives​
   As I teach my clients: failing is not trying; it’s giving up on the journey. What truth can you reclaim for yourself? Proclaim declarations like, “I am worthy of freedom,” or “God desires for me to deliver my purpose in this lifetime.” Make these your daily affirmations and allow their repetition to build your confidence.
4. Embrace Divine Alignment​
   The call to freedom is often spiritual. Sit quietly and reconnect to your purpose, to that divine voice within you. When you feel in alignment with your true identity, the discomfort of leaving the familiar is tempered by an unshakeable sense of rightness. As I shared, “You should know, you should see, and you should actively choose it.”
5. Take Imperfect Action, Now​
   The most powerful antidote to stagnation is movement. If comfort wasn’t an option, what would you do today? Start with a single step. Call that person, sign up for the class, set the meeting, share your story. The journey towards freedom builds momentum with every aligned choice.
6. Share and Celebrate the Journey​
   Don’t wait for the “after” photo to inspire others. Share your process, your setbacks, and your growth. As I suggested, “When we allow people to be a part of seeing that journey as it unfolds, it helps them to know that they too can make that progress.” Collective healing and progress are contagious.

Living the Lesson: The Tiger Outside the Cage

I often recall the story of the caged tiger who, even when released, paces the space its cage once occupied. Our patterns of comfort are no different; they linger even after the door is open. But every step beyond that boundary expands the world available to you. Recognize your armchair, your 4x4 routine, your cage, not with judgment, but with curiosity.

Your Life, Transformed

Choosing freedom over comfort is a continual process, not a one-time event. It is the conscious, repeated decision to answer the call of your purpose, even when uncomfortable. True comfort, the comfort of freedom, purpose, and spiritual alignment, awaits you on the other side.

Reflect, rewrite your story, and step out, today. As you do, you’ll realize that the life you most deeply desire isn’t outside your reach; it’s on the other side of the choice you make right now.

If you want to dive deeper into this journey, my book Healing Is Required offers guided exercises and insights to help you break free from the comfort cage. Preorders are open at HealingIsRequired.com, and I invite you to continue this transformative conversation with me each week on The Anika Apple Podcast.​

Remember: You were created to lead with purpose and power. Step into your calling, honor what is sacred within you, and let your life be the healing the world needs.

Watch the full episode of "Comfort Is the Cage- Why Staying Safe is Costing You Your Freedom." by clicking below

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With love,
​The Anika Apple Podcast Team

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What's Inspiring Me This Week: Me ​ Give me two minutes to explain before you think this is all about ego... This is for everyone who has wrestled with worthiness, self-doubt, playing small, navigating overwhelm, anxiety, and people who figured it all out and still chose to leave comfort for freedom. ​ I'm inspired by you and me. ​ As I was thinking about what feels really inspiring today, it's watching my growth. You've seen a lot here and on the podcast, but there are so many layers. A few years ago, I dreamt of today- owning my own business, consulting, speaking, and writing... and I am here. And let's be clear, I am celebrating before anyone else knows that I am here. You've seen the journey and we get to honor this level of growth together. This journey has led me to freedom and to redefining my definition of success, the value of money and my relationships. Now more than ever, I value freedom and that is inspiring. I want to know what is inspiring you this week. Drop me a note at connect@anikaapple.com and I will include your inspirations in an upcoming newsletter. Let's celebrate our growth now. This is your reminder (or permission if that is your desire) that you are worthy of being recognized today for simply being you!​​

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